All men lie; it’s an unfortunate fact. Today, we’ll look at WHY men lie.
Here are some of the reasons why men lie…
He’s scared of your emotions
Most men would rather get punched in the guts than make a woman cry or make her angry.
To avoid the wrath of your emotions, men get in a habit of telling you what they think you want to hear, rather than the whole truth.
This is fine in most instances, though often it proves to stifle a relationship when he doesn’t let you in on how he’s really feeling about important matters.
He’s hiding something really bad
Most of the time men lie over little things, just to keep the peace and to keep your emotions intact. However, sometimes he’s lying because of something more sinister, like cheating, hiding money, gambling, alcohol or other addictions and more.
Trust is such an important part of any relationship, but if the bad thing he has done has to do with addiction, then it pays to be more supportive than aggressive.
You can use it as an opportunity to grow together and for you to be seen as a woman who truly loves him and cares for his wellbeing than someone who will leave him if he doesn’t do as he is told.
He thinks you’re better off not knowing
Often the things that he has done wrong, in his mind, are not big issues, and if you don’t find out, they won’t hurt you.
He doesn’t necessarily realize the fact that if you DO find out, that you may never trust him again and that you may never reach the same level of trust and love in your relationship ever again.
This gives you x-ray vision into the minds of men…